#161. Why We Keep Talking Past Each Other: Finding Christ in the Middle of Difficult Conversations

Every day we give and receive communication. But good communication doesn’t always come naturally. Strengthening our skills is vital not only for those who specialize in communication but for everyone who wants to have healthy relationships, love our neighbors, and shape the world around us for good.

In Authentic Communication, educators Tim Muehlhoff and Todd Lewis offer a wealth of resources from both communication studies and the Bible. This textbook unpacks the essential elements of communication and applies them to common challenges, offering a unique look at biblical principles of communication such as loving our enemies and blessing those who insult us.

Dr Tim Muehlhoff’s website

Dr Tim Muehlhoff at Biola University

Dr Tim Muehlehoff on IVPress

Book: Authentic Communication, Christian Speech Engaging Culture

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

  • Communication is Harder Than We Realize
  • Perspective-Taking
  • The Way We Communicate Reflects Our Spiritual Maturity

ABOUT THE GUEST:

Dr Tim Muehlhoff is a professor of communication at the Bible Institute of Los Angeles (Biola) in La Mirada, CA. He is the senior director of the Winsome Conviction Project that seeks to open lines of communication, not close them.

His newest book, Authentic Communication: Christian Speech Engaging Culture, written with Todd Lewis, blends biblical wisdom with communication research to help Christians become better listeners, wiser speakers, healthier peacemakers, and more faithful witnesses.

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TIMESTAMPED SHOWNOTES:

00:42 – Introducing Dr Tim Muehlhoff

03:06 – Communication is Harder than We Realize

03:25 – …isolation, negative attitudes, stereotypes

03:56 – …let people self-identify

04:48 – …often we focus on ourselves and not on others

05:52 – Book: Authentic Communication, Christian Speech Engaging Culture

06:12 – …monologue conversations

06:51 – …authentic conversations

08:08 – …agenda anxiety

09:11 – Perspective-Taking

09:22 – …step into the other person’s perspective and feelings

11:12 – …walking with the person

12:15 – A Better Framework in an Argument Culture

13:01 – …connectiveness makes conflict go easier

14:08 – …we do not talk to each other

15:05 – Communication in Social Media

15:53 – …do you really want to engage or just unload?

16:58 – … what’s the goal of posting?

17:20 – …opportunity to be Christian communicators

17:46 – The Way We Communicate Reflects Our Spiritual Maturity

18:24 – …responding in love and gentleness

18:50 – …speaking in the right frame of mind and heart

19:39 – Communication Research Aligns with Scripture

22:04 – Encouragement When You May Have Not Communicated Authentically

22:34 – …love wins

25:21 – …start by hearing the other person’s perspective

25:59 – Communicating More Like Christ

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